jaysaint Getting it all down on paper…

Subtitle: Why the internet is just so great.

It’s a few days past Valentine’s, but I still have hearts on my mind. So I got interested when I saw that one of our editors had posted this darling print on our blog, Design Happens:

Any Yo Gabba Gabba fans here?

(Sidenote: I have a terrible habit of buying prints, agonizing over where to hang them, and ultimately stashing them until the right solution comes to me. It never does. I need help.)

I recognized the words instantly from the earworm-tastic Roots song we see on Yo Gabba Gabba a billionty times a week. My finger hovered over the link that would take me to the Etsy store as I read the story. It goes roughly like this:

Merrilee is an artist. Last Christmas she and her husband agreed to a (nearly) no-spending-on-gifts policy. So she whipped up the above print for him in honor of the family’s impromptu dance parties to this song.

Ruth has four kids, and is married to the creator of Yo Gabba Gabba. She stumbled across the above blog, and was charmed. She contacted Merrilee and asked if she could buy a copy of the print for her husband.

In reading Ruth’s blog, Merrilee learns about Davy. That’s the couple’s daughter, who is living with some very serious medical issues. Anyone who thinks the riches (?) associated with creating a hit children’s show are any match for major, ongoing medical bills has never had major, ongoing medical bills. Merrilee knew that, and decided to sell the prints via her Etsy shop and hand over all the proceeds to Davy and her family.

We all know that the money from a set of prints in an Etsy shop are also no match for medical bills. But I am sure that the kindness built up even more important reserves.

Now the print has been picked up by Ohdeedoh, Design Crush, and HGTV. Which should mean, in theory, that Merrilee will need to crank her printer up to 11. I ordered the yellow and the blue versions. No idea where I’m going to hang them.

(FYI: This week Merrilee is throwing in an extra print for every one that you buy. A steal at $20, I think)

I am a sucker for Jeopardy-style restaurant guessing games. Which dish will kill me? The manicotti??? No! It’s the salad! I follow Damon around the house quizzing him from Eat This, Not That. Somewhere along the way I picked up the (possibly wrong) information that an egg mcmuffin is not such a bad choice, as far as fast food goes.

 (A quick review on the McDonald’s nutrition page reveals that I have slightly been kidding myself. 5 grams of saturated fat! And yet, at least some calcium and iron. Decide for yourselves:

(click to make it legible.))

Anyway, I figured that if I took the meat off it would practically become health food. So I started picking one up semi-regularly on the way to work. And really, it’s not a bad idea. They do keep me pretty happy until lunchtime, which is more than I can say for my Luna Bars.

Here’s my genius discovery though… If you order an egg mcmuffin, hold the meat, and a medium Coke (because who am I really kidding?) you will pay $4.10 for your breakfast. BUT! If you order an egg and cheese biscuit, but sub an English muffin for the biscuit, your breakfast will be $3.60. So! 50 cents savings every day!

Really, I’m telling you this not because I think it will be that relevant to that many people, but because a) I am fascinated that I can make that big a percentage of a difference in the cost of a meal just by varying the way I place the order and b) Damon is tired of hearing about this amazing discovery.

Also, a double quarter pounder has 19 grams of saturated fat! Gah!

I think we need to get organized. Obviously that is true of the “we” in our house. But I mean the collective “We.” I have some grievances I need to file.

1. I am being denied one of the assumed basic priveleges of motherhood. Neither of my children, awake or asleep, will tolerate the tender tucking of a blanket under their chins. I am willing to negotiate down to a waist-level tuck.

2. While it is within the rights of very small children (<4) to wake up in the middle of the night, all said children living under one roof could reasonably coordinate those wakings so as not to be switching back and forth all damn night.

Today is the first time in my life I’m not able to wish my Dad a happy birthday on February 13th.

This morning was the hardest part (presumably), since he was an early riser (I still have to go back and correct my tenses.) and I would have called him around 7.

It’s still a struggle, although now an almost entirely internal one. As always, everyone moves on. I totally get that, and it’s how it should be. I think that’s what helps pull me into the present and keeps me looking forward. Everyone else is already there. Still, it’s hard to turn off the impulse to keep asking the question: “Where is my dad?” Surely someone knows. He cannot just be vanished without a trace. He built a whole life. He was smart and hilarious and had a huge impact on people. It passes all understanding that he can just stop.

Dad would have been glued to the coverage of the revolution in Egypt. We would have called back and forth to exclaim over developments and make plans to go see this new old country. We’d reminisce about our time there and recall all the reasons we love it.

He was never one for deadlines. I often got presents for my March birthday over the summer. Or in February. It was mostly whenever the spirit moved him. The boys never got a Christmas gift last year because Dad was hunting for the perfect chess set and hadn’t seen it yet. Now we have his ancient set — intricate wooden figures on a marble board.

The exception to this disregard for timing was Valentine’s Day. Many years ago, when I was fresh out of college and working at CNN, I called my Dad on Feb. 14th, just to say hello. I called from work because that’s where I was most of the time. No respecter of calendars, Dad had no idea what day it was. And that wasn’t why I was calling. I did remark, though, that it was a nice day to be at work because there were so many flowers around. I didn’t care at all that my desk was bare. I fancied myself Mary Tyler Moore. Two hours after we hung up I got a call from the security desk that I had a delivery. Two dozen red roses with a card that read, “All my love, Reynaldo.” I called “Reynaldo” and to him it was so simple. No one should have more markers of love and value than his own daughter. Never willing to risk it again, every Valentine’s Day was the same — an ostentatious bouquet shows up on my desk early in the day for maximum impact. Always from love-sick foreigners with exotic names. At least until I married, and then it was simply, perfectly, “Love, Dad.”